21 October 2018

Spelling Bee



Earlier this year the New York Times added some new games to their daily on-line edition. I have to admit I only discovered the one I will discuss here about a month or so ago, but I have become quite devoted to trying to work on it every day.

The game is called “Spelling Bee.” Each day, seven letters are given, one of which is in bold font and appears in the center of the grid. Here is an example:


How to Play
Create words using letters from the hive.
·       Words must contain at least 4 letters.
·       Words must include the center letter.
·       Words may not be proper nouns or hyphenated.
·       Letters can be used more than once.
Score points to increase your rating.
·       4-letter words are worth 1 point each.
·       Longer words earn 1 point per letter.
·       Each puzzle includes at least one “pangram” which uses every letter. These are worth 7 extra points!

The letters in today’s Spelling Bee are

MOCPLTI

If you want to try to play, stop reading here!

I found 14 words which corresponded to a score of 70; two of the words use all 7 letters.

·       Clomp
·       Comic
·       Commit
·       Complicit
·       Impolitic
·       Limit
·       Loom
·       Mill
·       Mimic
·       Mitt
·       Moll
·       Molt
·       Moot
·       Pompom

Rankings
Ranks are based on a percentage of possible points in a puzzle. The minimum scores to reach each rank for today’s puzzle are:
1.      Beginner (0)
2.      Good Start (2)
3.      Moving Up (5)
4.      Good (8)
5.      Solid (14)
6.      Nice (24)
7.      Great (38)
8.      Amazing (48)
9.      Genius (67)

In other words, a score of 70 for today classifies as GENIUS!

I am really enjoying this game!

Love,

Rebecca


19 October 2018

Nothing like a dame?



We saw the newly released film, “Tea with the Dames,” that apparently also goes by the name “Nothing Like a Dame.” That latter name hearkens back to the song written for the musical “South Pacific” by Richard Rodgers with lyrics by Oscar Hammerstein II, “There is Nothing Like a Dame.” But as I see it, that is about as far as the similarity goes.

“Tea with the Dames” is a documentary in which four British stage and screen stars and apparently longtime friends, Dame Maggie Smith (83 years old), Dame Judi Dench (83 years old), Dame Eileen Atkins (84 years old), and Dame Joan Plowright (88 years old), drink tea and chat about their lives and careers interspersed with clips from some of their legendary roles. I cannot claim familiarity with much of their work. But two things struck me in a very positive way about these four women. The first is how amazingly articulate and witty they are even well into their 80s. They may be a bit hard on themselves when memories are unclear, but they are all doing quite well indeed. And the second is how they are all aging naturally, not giving in to the temptation to allow plastic surgeons to attempt to maintain their younger looking faces. Actors such as Jane Fonda and Goldie Hawn come to mind as examples of just how unattractive this can be.




Have a great weekend!

Love,

Rebecca



16 October 2018

Me or I?


On our drive back to New York after a wonderful weekend in Sharon, including celebrating Noah’s 2nd birthday, we were listening to an interview with Adam Cohen, son of the late singer/songwriter/poet Leonard Cohen. We had seen Adam perform at the Festival International de Jazz de Montréal (Montreal International Jazz Festival) in the summer of 2015 (see blog post from July 9th). Like his father, he is a highly articulate and prolific poet and songwriter. So why did he, not once but twice, say “my mother moved my sister and I to (another city)”? Why is there such an intense aversion to using the word “me”? I just cringe when I hear this, particularly from the mouth of someone who otherwise has such an impressive command of the English language.

This got us to thinking about how much we had enjoyed that trip to Montreal. In fact, here is what I wrote at the time:

All good things must come to an end so on Sunday morning we headed back to New York on another gloriously sunny day. All I can say is that Barry has already checked out the dates for the 2016 festival!

Neither 2016 nor the subsequent few years happened, but we have now made some tentative plans to attend the jazz festival next summer, which happens to fall during the week of our 46th wedding anniversary.

Sunday was a “Julia day.” We took her to the Providence Children’s Museum, when they opened at 9 a.m., planning to spend a couple of hours. It turned out to be a good thing that we brought along plenty of snacks and drinks and even a sandwich for Julia, because an hour after we arrived two of her friends came with their families, and we ended up spending nearly five hours there.






Have a great week!

Love,


Rebecca



10 October 2018

The beginning of a great career?


Joshua just called to share some exciting news: he and his friend Dror were elected as co-presidents of the Ninth Grade Class at the Maimonides School! It was a tough election: there were eight other pairs of candidates in the running. As his grandparents, it is tempting to say that this success is a direct result of his keen intelligence, his winning personality, and his good looks. But, realistically, it appears that it was primarily the promise made by the two young men to have the school provide free ice cream to all the ninth graders that carried the day.

Did you catch Jeopardy on Tuesday evening? The final answer was:

Of the 23 lawgivers depicted on marble portraits over doors in the U.S. House chamber, he’s the only one in the Bible.

The question?

Who was Moses?

After posting this, it occurred to me that I should have included a picture of that marble portrait, and here it is:

Moses



Love,

Rebecca

08 October 2018

Two documentary films


We managed to squeeze in time to see two documentary films over the past week or so: “Love, Gilda,” and “Moynihan.”

“Love, Gilda” is a touching portrait of the late comedian and actress Gilda Radner, who died of ovarian cancer at the age of only forty-three. The documentary includes particularly memorable scenes of characters she created during her five years as one of the original “Not Ready for Prime Time Players” troupe on NBC’s “Saturday Night Live (SNL)” from 1975 – 1980: Roseanne Roseannadanna, Emily Litella, and Baba Wawa come first to mind.

Her Stage IV cancer was diagnosed in 1986, almost a year after her first symptoms had appeared. After aggressive treatment with surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation, and a relatively brief period of remission, her cancer returned in December of 1988, and she died in May of 1989.

Watching clips of some of the work she did after her years on SNL, it is clear that SNL had been the best vehicle for her talents, but we will unfortunately never know the full range of her capabilities. All in all, it is a sad tale of someone who brought so many laughs to so many people for too short a time.


We saw “Moynihan” at the recently refurbished Film Forum, which reopened on August 1st following a $5 million renovation, including new chairs and more leg room throughout and an additional (fourth) theater. The location is definitely not convenient but we have always enjoyed FF and had been anxious to get back there after the three-month renovation period.

I am somewhat ashamed to admit that I probably could not have told you a lot about Daniel Patrick Moynihan before seeing this movie. He was certainly an interesting and impressive human being, whose career included cabinet or sub-cabinet positions under Presidents John Kennedy, Lyndon Johnson, Richard Nixon, and Gerald Ford, Ambassador to India; United States Permanent Representative to the United Nations; and four-term Democratic United States Senator from New York. A friend who read this post pointed out that missing from this list is that he was "a fantastically, unforgettably inspiring Harvard professor." He was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom on August 9, 2000. His ability to work "across the aisle" is especially heartwarming during these polarized times in which we now live. 



Have a good week!

Love,

Rebecca



07 October 2018

Creative Challot



Dina and Julia had lots of fun today baking for Noah’s upcoming second birthday next Friday. I just could not resist sharing these pictures. Dina’s challot are always delicious – a perfect match for Julia’s smile.





Love,

Rebecca

05 October 2018

A guaranteed smile



On the eve of the last of the fall Jewish holidays, we gathered for dinner at Dina and Aaron’s house, arriving a few minutes early to pose for informal family pictures in the yard. Aaron was able to set up a timer on his camera to allow all twelve of us to be in a few of the pictures. I have now posted three of them here on the blog. Enjoy!

We had a wonderful two days, sharing delicious food (including Barry’s famous pot roast for the carnivores in the group) and many laughs. To be honest, it was probably the best I have felt in what seems like far too long a time. Buoyed by the experience, we are hoping to return to our regular schedule of more frequent visits to Sharon.

One thing that will make this more feasible is that my medical oncologist, Dr. Iyer, who had only been seeing outpatients only on Fridays, is adding Wednesday mornings to that schedule. He told me this when I began to ask him about scheduling for Friday mornings after we change our clocks in a few weeks, making Sabbath start quite early. So, beginning with my next visit, I will be seeing him on Wednesdays, allowing us much more flexibility in our planning.

I have tried hard not to wander into politics on this blog. This has been a difficult week. I am still debating just what, if anything, I want to say. The current story will likely end in the next day or so, but regardless of our opinions on how it perhaps should have gone differently, we now need to be prepared to move forward with civility. It may just take a little time.

Meanwhile, have a great weekend.

Love,

Rebecca



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