14 February 2020

West Side Story


“Hair Love,” the animated short film about which I wrote in my last post, won the Oscar for best animated short! Great choice. Truth be told we had not seen most of the full-length films nominated, so I cannot really say too much about the selections made by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences in its 92nd year.

Moving from movies to Broadway shows, we went last Sunday afternoon to see “West Side Story,” which is currently in previews and scheduled to open on February 20th.

I was surprised at just how familiar I was with the music, although I certainly never saw the play on Broadway and I cannot recall having seen the movie version, which won ten academy awards in 1961:

·         Academy Award for Best Picture – Robert Wise, producer
·         Academy Award for Best Director – Robert Wise and Jerome Robbins
·         Academy Award for Best Cinematography (Color) – Daniel L. Fapp
·         Academy Award for Best Costume Design (Color) – Irene Sharaff
·         Academy Award for Best Sound – Fred Hynes (Todd-AO SSD), and Gordon E. Sawyer (Samuel Goldwyn SSD)

After seeing the Broadway production, we spent a couple of evenings watching the 1961 film, which Barry had recorded some years ago but we had never watched. The current Broadway production is a rather darker and quite differently staged version than the film and presumably than the original Broadway play. Much of the wonderful music is still there, although notably the song “I Feel Pretty” was not included.

The current Broadway production is most interesting in its combination of live actors in front of a large screen that projects the actors juxtaposed with street scenes of the West Side of New York through the use of a person walking around the stage with a camera. This is an expanded version of the technique that was used in the recent Broadway production of “Network,” which we saw and I wrote about in May of last year. Through use of this technique, you could see the gang members with their tattoos and scars blown up to enormous proportions, depicting them as menacingly aggressive from the start of the show. This is very different from the 1961 film, in which they were portrayed as basically good-hearted “juvenile delinquents.”





One thing we found extremely disconcerting was the number of young children in the audience. This is not one of your typically joyful Broadway musicals by a long shot. There were definitely children in that audience who were far too young to be exposed to the violence embodied in these characters; the current production depicts what was clearly an attempted sexual assault that is quite a bit more explicit than the movie version. Perhaps some of the younger children, who appeared to be no more than six or seven years old, did not even realize what they were watching. But I have to wonder what their parents were thinking and how many of them had at least a few sleepless nights after their Sunday afternoon at at the Broadway Theater.

This production has also been in the news because of a controversy involving the actor who plays Bernardo, Amar Ramasar. Ramasar was dismissed from the New York City Ballet in 2018 after a female dancer filed a civil lawsuit against the company and other defendants alleging that Ramasar and two other male dancers exchanged explicit photos of her and other female dancers without their consent. Protesters have called for “West Side Story” to fire Ramasar over these allegations. In fact, there was a note in the playbill indicating that the role of Bernardo was being played by a different actor, but I do not know whether that was related to this issue.

Have a great weekend!

Love,


Rebecca




05 February 2020

Animated Short Film Oscar Nominations 2020



One of our favorite movie theaters in New York is The Landmark at 57 West. They show a particularly compelling set of films. Here are the films currently showing:


We went to see the 2020 Oscar Nominated Shorts – Animation. Some of them were rather strange and difficult to understand, but we especially enjoyed three in particular.

HAIR LOVE
Matthew A. Cherry and Karen Rupert Toliver
An African-American father learns to do his daughter’s hair for the first time.
This film tells a gripping tale, presumably based on a true story, but it is not until the final moments that you find out what is really going on. The full movie (about 7 minutes) is here.




MEMORABLE
Bruno Collet and Jean-François Le Corre
Painter Louis and his wife Michelle are experiencing strange events. Their world seems to be mutating. Slowly, furniture, objects, and people lose their realism. They are “destructuring,” sometimes disintegrating.
I am not sure I precisely understood this film the way it is described here. It seemed to me that it was more about a husband sinking into dementia.




SISTER
Siqi Song
A man remembers his childhood and growing up with an annoying little sister in 1990s China. How would his life have been if things had gone differently?

This film also has a rather surprising, albeit sad, ending when you realize what story is really being told.



If you do have a chance to see any of these, animated shorts are really a fascinating art form.

Love,

Rebecca








04 February 2020

A shock




I ended my last post, just a few short days ago, with the words “We all need to laugh as much as we can.” Never could I have imagined just how prescient those words would be.

Although a message had gone out just a few hours after the end of Shabbat, I did not come downstairs and check my e-mail until mid-Sunday morning, and was shocked to see the following:

Bereavement Notice- Rebbetzin Annette Wolk z"l

With profound shock and deep sadness, we regret to inform you of the passing of our founding Rebbetzin, Rebbetzin Annette Wolk z"l, beloved wife of our Rabbi Emeritus Rabbi Howard Wolk, mother of Elie (Amy) Wolk, Michal (Rabbi Eric) Olshin, Yo (Lani) Wolk, Rabbi Akiva (Dr. Rachel) Wolk, Gavi (Talia) Wolk and Shimi Wolk, grandmother of Ruby, Sydney and Sammy Wolk and many other grandchildren and legendary Limmudei Kodesh teacher for decades at the Akiba/Yavneh Academy of Dallas

Note: z”l is the English shorthand for the Hebrew phrase זיכרונה לברכה , which means “may her memory be a blessing.”

At first glance, not quite absorbing what I had read, I assumed it was Rabbi Walk’s mother who had died, but then I quickly and shockingly realized that the announcement was about Rabbi Wolk’s wife.

I was able to get in touch with an old friend from our Dallas days to confirm this terrible event. Apparently, Annette z"l had died in her sleep on Friday night. She was staying at the home of a friend while Rabbi Wolk was in New York waiting to leave for Israel after Shabbat. I cannot even imagine the horror that the friends with whom she was spending the weekend must have felt when they awoke on Shabbat morning to find her gone.

As it is Jewish tradition to bury as quickly as possible, the funeral took place on Sunday. Fortunately, another friend sent me the link and we were able to watch as Rabbi Wolk and each of their children spoke about their wife and mother.

We spent our first five years as a married couple on the University of Rochester campus. From 1978-1980, Barry was a postdoctoral fellow at Brookhaven National Laboratory and we lived in Patchogue, a small town in eastern Long Island. During those years, Rabbi Wolk led the small orthodox synagogue in Patchogue. There were only a handful of young couples in the community, so we were all very close, and I remember spending quite a lot of time with Annette z"l and the rabbi, who lived in the same garden apartment complex as did we. After completing his postdoctoral fellowship, we moved to Dallas, Texas where Barry was an Assistant Professor at the University of Texas Health Science Center at Dallas. Just weeks before we left Dallas to move to Sharon in 1986, Rabbi Wolk called us to tell us he was coming to Dallas for an interview, and he was offered and took that post. He stayed there for some years before moving on to a position in West Hartford, Connecticut, but after a few years there he returned to Dallas and the Wolks made that their permanent home.

In my memories of Annette z”l, she was always smiling. I took a look at her Facebook page and found hundreds of pictures of her radiant smile. I have to believe that somewhere she is still smiling at her husband, children, and grandchildren and everyone who had the pleasure and honor of knowing her.

Her memory will be a blessing, as was the life she lived.

Love,

Rebecca



30 January 2020

A priceless handshake



We were back up in Sharon last weekend. We spent Shabbat afternoon with Eliana and Julia, and then Saturday night headed up to the Maimonides vs. Gann Academy varsity basketball game which was held at the Gosman Athletic Center at Brandeis University in Waltham. Our M-Cats won! On Sunday, we headed up to Brookline and met Simmie and Eliana for lunch at Pure Cold Press in Brookline (https://www.purecoldpress.com/), a really terrific restaurant. Simmie headed back to Sharon while we went with Eliana to see the M-Cats play Cristo Rey at a beautiful, relatively new (opened in 2011) venue, The Salvation Army Ray and Joan Kroc Corps Community Center, not far from the restaurant. Cristo Rey was a tough team with a lot of very tall players and the M-Cats played hard but could not get out ahead.

On Tuesday evening we headed over to the 92nd Street Y for this:

Paul Krugman in Conversation with Samantha Bee: Arguing with Zombies


Join Nobel Prize-winning economist and New York Times columnist Paul Krugman for a conversation about his new book, Arguing with Zombies—along with the most crystal-clear crash course in contemporary economics, politics and public policy you’re likely to get ahead of the 2020 election.
As the Trump administration rolls back nearly every New Deal-era law America has relied upon for a century, Krugman breaks down the myths surrounding public policy issues at home and abroad—from tax reform to healthcare to Brexit—with the characteristic intelligence, wit and passion that have been on display for two decades in his writing for The New York Times.


This was a thoroughly enjoyable hour, in some ways rather surprising to me. I really enjoy reading Krugman’s Op-Ed pieces in the New York Times, and was heartened to see that even with his amazing resume, he comes off as being very down-to-earth. But Samantha Bee was the big surprise. She is certainly very funny but she is also impressively well-read and smart, and really held her own quite well with this Nobel Laureate.

I suppose that because we had tickets for this event, a few hours before it I received an e-mail about tickets being available to see a taping of Samantha Bee’s show, “Full Frontal,” for the following evening. After ensuring handicap accessibility at the CBS Studio where it is taped, we decided to go for it and ordered the tickets. Chatting with another audience member before the show, I was reminded that we had done this sort of thing just once before, when we had gone to see a taping of the “Colbert Report.” I cannot remember just when that was, but it must have been before I started blogging in 2012 because I cannot seem to find any mention of it here. That show aired for 1,447 episodes between October 2005 and December 2014. It no longer seems possible to obtain tickets to see Colbert since he took over hosting “The Late Show;” believe me, I have tried!

It was a lot of fun, but to be honest, as performances go, we really enjoyed the 92nd Street Y talk far more. However, there was one highlight of that taping that will stick with me forever. Because I was in a wheelchair, they sat me at a designated spot right in the front on the far left. And when the taping ended, Samantha Bee made a point of coming over to me and shaking my hand. Wow! I really did not imagine she would have even noticed this old grey-haired lady with the oxygen sitting in a wheelchair, let alone come over to thank her for coming. But she did. And all I can say is that although I may find her raunchiness a bit much at times, she now has an enormous fan for life!

Here is the full episode.

https://www.tbs.com/shows/full-frontal-with-samantha-bee/season-4/episode-34/january-29-2020






We all need to laugh as much as we can!

Love,

Rebecca





23 January 2020

a postscript




Postscript to last post:

After receiving a couple of comments on this post, I was reminded of another recent misuse of the English language you may appreciate. The other day, I heard part of a recent speech given by Prince Harry of the UK, who presumably speaks "The King's English," in which he referred to "the decision that I made for my wife and I to step back..."

Took me a while to find it, but here it is....


He later refers to being grateful for the support that his grandmother has given "Megan and I." Oh dear.



A Final Jeopardy! we definitely knew


On the Jeopardy! aired last night, the Final Jeopardy! category was U.S. Territories and the answer was:

Of the 5 inhabited U.S. territories, this is the
only one where cars drive on the left.

We got this immediately, having spent many wonderful weeks over the years vacationing on St. John in the Caribbean: The correct question was,

What are the U.S. Virgin Islands?

That question got me to wondering, what are the other four inhabited U.S. territories? Isn’t Wikipedia a wonderful thing?

The U.S. has five permanently inhabited territories: Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands in the Caribbean Sea, Guam and the Northern Mariana Islands in the North Pacific Ocean, and American Samoa in the South Pacific.


Puerto Rico
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U.S. Virgin Islands
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Northern Mariana Islands
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Guam
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American Samoa
American Samoa Flag 3x5ft Nylon
Driving on the left side was initially a bit of a challenge, but over the years we certainly became used to it. For those who might be curious, the cars there, which presumably are manufactured in countries with right-side roadways, have drivers’ seats on the left side, so it is, I suppose, a bit odd for those coming from the UK and other countries where the cars are made to accommodate the different driving patterns.

We may be able to drive our cars on different sides of the roads but you would hope we could agree on some basic rules of grammar. Perhaps because I have been subjected to too much media (print, electronic, and television) lately, I am finding myself annoyed almost every day with the flagrant disregard for those rules. Here is one you see frequently that I just picked up in a fundraising e-mail:

Let’s do it again in 2020: pitch in $10 or more now to help Adam and I win our re-election campaigns and hold the House so we can keep making progress.

To help Adam and I? You want to help I? What ever happened to helping me? When did “me” become a forbidden word? Somehow people have the impression that “me” is too informal. But, no, and here is the distinction:

·       “I” is the subject pronoun, which means that it is used as the subject of a verb, the one "doing" the verb.
·       “Me” is the object pronoun, which means that it is used as the object of the verb.

So, please, if I need help, then I will ask you to help ME!

Be well, and drive safely!

Love,

Rebecca


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