21 May 2013

A funny memory


We had a nice Sabbath in Sharon, including a lunch hosted by long-time friends for a group of about 25 people, ten of them our whole family. We decided to head back to New York first thing Sunday morning because of the train accident in Connecticut which was anticipated to cause traffic problems. At one point in Connecticut the traffic on the highway slowed to a virtual standstill, but that turned out to be traffic for a local college graduation. So all in all, our trip home was uneventful.

Barry has been quite busy the past two days as his laboratory and office were moved to a brand new building. Most of the laboratories in which Barry has worked over the years have been in very old structures, and we have made jokes about the dinosaur footprints in the halls. But this is a brand new building, which is exciting. Of course laboratory work has changed significantly in the years that Barry has been conducting scientific research. Now, much of the work is done in what are known as “core facilities,” laboratories that specialize in things like DNA sequencing. Newly constructed space is designed and allocated with this in mind. I am anxious to go and see the new laboratory when I am over at Mount Sinai for my next appointment with one of my physicians there.

Since it has been a quiet last few days, I opened my notes from the writing class, and selected one of the assignments to share here. The assignment was to write about telephones, and I knew immediately what I would write.

We were at the Bottom Line, a wonderful old club in Greenwich Village, on a Saturday night in 1995. Singer/songwriter Christine Lavin was performing. We had arrived early and found seats in the front row at the foot of the stage. That same evening, our teenage daughter had come into The City with friends. In those days, cell phones were much less common than they are today. We had one, a clunky “bag phone,” but our daughter did not, so she was to find a pay phone and call us to make arrangements to pick her up.

It was during a moment between songs, when the club was quiet, waiting for Christine to begin the next song, that our cell phone rang. Without missing a beat, Christine said “Oh, the phone! Is it for me?” She reached over the edge of the stage and grabbed the phone from my husband’s hand and started a conversation with our very confused daughter. When she told Christine that she was trying to reach “Dr. Rosenstein,” Christine looked at Barry and said “Oh, so you’re a doctor!” The audience roared. Our daughter later told us that she could hear my laughing so she knew that everything was alright. After chatting briefly, Christine handed Barry back the phone, and he quickly instructed our daughter to call back in a few minutes.

Things got complicated after that and we had a hard time finding each other, but eventually we did manage to pick her up and return home. Sometimes I bemoan the fact that our digital devices are running our lives. But then I remember that crazy evening so long ago, before they were so ubiquitous.



Once again, the news is filled with sadness and pain, this time the tornadoes in Oklahoma. We can only hope that all those who are suffering will find the strength to rebuild and move forward.

Love,

Rebecca 

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