07 June 2016

Time flying by


Where has the time gone? Well, I have accomplished some things. I had the dining room chairs re-upholstered, and ordered table pads which arrived over the weekend; not soon enough for this Sabbath but to be used the next time we are in New York. Everything looks good.

What I have not done is keep any sort of careful track of my activities. I must have been doing things because I know that I have not been sitting around eating bonbons, but I am hard pressed to come up with any sort of list. It is somewhat embarrassing but mostly just frustrating.

We did see a couple of movies. The first was “Maggie’s Plan.” Maggie (Greta Gerwig) is a 30ish woman who is still sort of trying to find herself. One thing she does know is that she wants to be a mother. Not having found a life partner, she sets out to find a man willing to donate sperm. She runs an advertisement and her interest is piqued by a fellow named Guy who makes artisanal pickles in Brooklyn. This brings back memories of “Crossing Delancey,” a charming 1988 movie with Amy Irving and Peter Riegert. She fills the turkey baster and begins the process but is interrupted by John (Ethan Hawke), a man she has recently met due to some mix-up with paychecks. John, of course, is already married - to Georgette (Julianne Moore), but it is not what anyone would call a good marriage. Two Saturday Night Live veterans, Maya Rudolph and Bill Hader, play their friends, a couple that leave you scratching your head wondering why they ever married in the first place. 


Fast forward a few years, Maggie and John are now married with a young daughter but having some of the same issues that left his first marriage in bad shape. You can sort of see what is going on but I do not want to ruin this entirely because there is one “surprise” due to a detail from early on in the story. This movie received good reviews but I was not terribly enthused. Maybe it was Julianne Moore’s rather odd accent.



The other movie, as far as I can see, has only one thing going for it: it provides another politician for consideration whose personal life and style leave a lot to be desired. Interestingly, he may well have been a good public servant. But his behavior was so bizarre that it is difficult to fathom why he and his wife would have ever agreed to allow the film maker to speak with them and film them. We tried to figure out how they could have possibly signed a contract that did not have an escape clause, because they really should have run like the wind (I think that Huma Abedin would have if she could). The movie is “Weiner.” We are not in 4th grade any more so his name is no joke when you look at his life. It is just overwhelmingly sad to me to see someone self-destruct so miserably and then go back for a second round.



I seldom work on the New York Times crossword puzzles on Friday and Saturday. It would be easy to use Shabbat as an excuse; the real reason is that I am just not that good. On Sunday, the puzzles are larger but are sometimes easier than Friday and Saturday. So when I have some time I will challenge myself. Something in this past Sunday’s puzzle brought a chuckle:

New York Times Crossword, Sunday 05 June 2016
73 Down: City whose name looks like it could mean "my friend"
(5 letters, and I was pretty sure the middle letter was an A)
Then it hit me, although I had never thought about it, we learned this from Dina when she was just a little girl. We were planning a trip to southern Florida and Simmie kept talking about the trip until finally Dina said (read it out loud)
"Simmie keeps saying we are going to her "Ammy", but when do we get to go to my "Ammy?"

No matter how hard we tried, it was never easy to keep things completely equal!

Have a nice week!

Love,


Rebecca

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