21 May 2017

Time alone


I am writing these opening words on Friday afternoon, May 19th. As is my practice, I compose in Microsoft Word, and save each posting with the date of its creation. But this one I am saving as “21 May 2017.doc,” because I do not intend to post this until Sunday.

The reason for the delay is to avoid publicizing the fact that I am here in New York by myself for this weekend. Barry is attending a meeting in Ann Arbor. If travel were not so challenging, I would certainly have gone with him. But he will be completely engaged in the conference today and tomorrow, and my limitations would essentially mean that I would be cooped up in a room at the University of Michigan Executive Learning and Conference Center. Staying here at home made a lot more sense.

The main downside of all this is that it would have been nice to be in Sharon, because Friday was Yom Orchim, Grandparents’ Day, at the children’s school. I could have tried to go up to Sharon on my own, but after a hectic weekend last week and plans to go up again next weekend for Shavuot (literally, “Weeks,” as it comes seven weeks after Passover following a daily count), it seemed wise to stay here.

I might have tried to make plans with friends but I cannot really go out because we have concluded that the battery in my mobility scooter has died. Ordinarily, the display shows a string of green lights when the battery is fully charged, and the scooter can be operated for many trips before those lights start going out. But each of the last few times I have fully charged and then driven the scooter, the battery lights began to extinguish into the yellow zone when I have barely gotten half way to the synagogue. So far, I have been lucky not to find myself stranded somewhere along Arlington Avenue returning from a weekday class. We have ordered a new battery which is supposed to arrive this week, and are hopeful that this will solve the problem.

During the past two weeks, the annual Teachers Tournament has aired on Jeopardy. We had been dutifully watching every evening and did not want to miss watching the last two games together. Originally, I figured we would just TiVo the show (which we do anyway so we can fast-forward through the commercials) and watch when Barry returned from Michigan. But instead we thought, “why not just watch together in our different locations?” That turned to be just a bit tricky because Jeopardy is syndicated and shown at different times on different networks in different cities. I went ahead and taped it here in New York, where it is on at 7:00 pm, and then Barry and I got on our respective speaker phones when it came on in Detroit at 7:30. It was a bit tricky getting the New York recorded version started precisely at the same moment as the live broadcast in Michigan, so Barry muted his end. I am glad we were able to watch the last two “together,” but I am happy he will be home for next Monday’s show.

I was telling our daughter about this over the phone on Friday afternoon and I could imagine she was rolling her eyes, wondering when her parents became such boring old fogies. Having said that, I think she may have also been wondering what it is like to have the time for such things; four young children do not allow for such luxuries.

Have a great week!

Love,


Rebecca

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