16 December 2013

Our own modern family


We had a wonderful weekend, and got to spend lots of time with the children. Ella came over for dinner and a sleep-over on Friday night, and we even prepared something other than macaroni and cheese – blintz soufflĂ© - that she liked! We bought food from the new kosher deli near Sharon and had Simmie and family for Sabbath afternoon. Then we stayed through Sunday and made dinner for the ten of us on Sunday evening. After dinner, we played with some of the gifts we had not had a chance to give the children during Chanukah. While Joshua played with his newest HexBugs set with Barry and Eliana, Ella and Maya helped Ronen and me put together a bed we had bought Maya for her American Girl doll. These girls know how to handle a screwdriver far better than their grandmother does! I’ve attached some pictures here.






One of the things we made last night is a very simple and yummy dish from Sundays at Moosewood Restaurant called Saffron Butterflies (which sounds even better in Italian, Farfalle allo Zafferano). When we were packing to leave this morning, I found half of a half-pint container of cream in the refrigerator. I was puzzled by this, because we had doubled the recipe for the butterflies, which called for ½ cup of cream, so we should have used the entire container. It turns out that when Barry added the cream, he forgot that we were doubling the recipe. Fortunately he had remembered doubling the other ingredients, so it was still delicious. But I thought that it seemed a bit less creamy than I had remembered it. So note to family: we have to do this again soon!

Having all ten of us for dinner, with so much going on afterwards, brought to mind a television show of which we have become huge fans: Modern Family. For those who have never watched this show, let me fill you in. Jay Pritchett, the head of the family, is married to the gorgeous and much younger Gloria, who has a precocious 12-year-old son, Manny, from her first marriage, and she and Jay have now had a baby boy together. Jay has two grown children from his first marriage, Claire and Mitchell. Claire and her husband, Phil, are the parents of three kids with whom they want an open, healthy, honest relationship: Haley, a teenage daughter who's growing up a little fast, Alex, a too-smart-for-her-own-good middle daughter and Luke, a scatterbrained boy. Mitchell is raising an adopted daughter, Lily, with his long term partner, Cameron. Don’t worry if you did not catch all that, you will not be tested! I have a hard time remembering all the names but once you get to know these characters they do grow on you.

Like most television situation comedies, the antics of this clan are somewhat contrived and not especially believable. While the warmth of the interactions between these family members does feel believable, in real life it takes work to make that happen. There are significant differences in outlook and personality among the family members, but they are tied together by a collective force that is far greater than any single one of them. As parents of grown children, and grandparents of growing-up-so-quickly grandchildren, this is what we are hoping to achieve. And I think it is that feeling that has me hooked on this show. We are grateful to our friends Michal and Manny for telling us about it. Our timing was fortunate, because a variety of cable channels are showing all the old episodes, albeit in scrambled order. We have over 40 on our playlist at this point!

This is the time of year that I begin to wonder if it might be time to start thinking about relocating to a warmer climate. I guess this weather is the price I have to pay to be close to our children and grandchildren and continue my love affair with New York.

Have a good week and stay safe and warm!

Love,

Rebecca
 


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