15 January 2016

Solemn note


It has been a difficult week: Barry’s mother died last night. In keeping with the Jewish tradition to expedite the transition to the final resting place, we were able to arrange for the funeral to be early this afternoon.

She was over 94 years old, most of them fairly healthy, and lived to see five great-grandchildren. She had suffered a stroke about two weeks ago that left her unable to communicate or eat or drink even small amounts. She had always been clear that she did not want to live this way, so unlike the deaths of younger friends over the past couple of years, in this case I can truly say “blessed is the righteous judge.”

As I sit here waiting for our daughters and Barry’s brother and his two daughters to arrive, I cannot help but think how seldom all of us are together, and to try to see something positive in everyone gathering to share and process this loss in our lives.

Love,

Rebecca


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