22 November 2013

The fall of 1963


Anyone born in the United States before 1958 or so likely remembers where they were and how they heard the news on that fateful day in November of 1963. As an eleven year old girl, I was not especially interested in politics, although I do remember being in awe of those two adorable little children running around the White House in their perfect clothes. How could anyone not love that good-looking and photogenic family? I was in the sixth grade at Grandview Elementary School, which was so close to our house that we kids were able to walk there. I remember the principal, who was a woman who seemed quite old to me but was probably not even 50, came into our classroom looking as if she had been crying, and very somberly sat down and told us that President Kennedy had been shot and killed. If memory serves, school was dismissed shortly after the announcement and we all went home. I have only fuzzy memories of the days that followed.

Less than three months later, on February 9th of 1964, the Beatles gave their first live television performance on a variety program called “The Ed Sullivan Show.” When I look back, it’s difficult for me to believe that these two events were so close in time. They feel like light years apart. Part of the reason may be that time passes differently as a child than as an adult; after all, three months is a much larger proportion of the life of an almost-12-year-old than of someone over 60.

Looking back on those two events, I have to admit that, at the time, the Beatles seemed far more important than the goings-on in Washington and far-away places. But now, much as I love music, noting the anniversaries of these two events in rather close proximity seems jolting to me. How could we have seemingly forgotten the assassination and moved on to such mundane things so quickly?

The adjustments to personal hardships may well be quite different for adults than for children. Again and again you hear about children who survive a cancer diagnosis and treatment and quickly return to normal, happy, lives. But most adults who go through this are left changed physically, mentally, or emotionally, and the road ahead, which may be an entirely different road than the one on which they had been travelling, is a little less straightforward. The best I can advise is to crank up the Beatles’ music and keep on dancing for as long as you can!

To that end, I’ve had a lot of nice time with the children during this week here in Sharon. The one thing I had somehow forgotten to pack is my camera, and yesterday, as I wanted to take a video of Eliana and Maya singing a song and doing a dance together, I discovered a problem with my Galaxy Note. It turned out to be that there was no room left in the memory, which I presume is in no way related to my own memory issues. This afternoon I moved all the pictures and little videos off of the device so now I will be able to use it again.

We have a full weekend ahead. Ella is coming over tonight for dinner and a sleep-over. Tomorrow we have friends coming for lunch, and on Sunday the ten of us are going to a local production of The Wizard of Oz in which one of Simmie’s Hebrew School students is performing. It is being presented by a group called the Un-Common Theater Company. Here is some information from their website:

Founded in 1980, The Un-Common Theatre Company is dedicated to producing quality productions performed by aspiring young actors, singers and musicians and supported by aspiring young technicians. We are one of the few children's theatre companies in New England that provides an opportunity to work under the guidance of theatre professionals and perform in professional theater houses. 

Our fall show kicks off our season and is our Fall Family Production (November) with a cast of all ages. Past shows have included kids, young adults, parents and even grandparents! It has been a fantastic way for young and old to learn from one another and encourage cross-generational mentoring relationships. 

The only downside to this weekend is that on Sunday a cold front is due to move in, leaving the temperatures well below freezing. Whenever this weather comes it is too soon for me! The only upside I can see is that Barry bought me a beautiful wool scarf when he was in the UK last month, and now I will finally have a chance to wear it.

Stay warm and have a great weekend!

Love,

Rebecca






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